Welcome to Pure, a playground for the open mind.


Taking adult pleasures back to their Pure essence... be sexy, be kinky, be yourself.

Pure is held in the perfect venue for adult fun. Relax in front of our open fire during the colder months, or skinny dip in the Jacuzzi when it warms up. Take refuge in one of the bedrooms for some intimate fun with your partner and others.

Take control or abandon yourself in our main fetish dungeon, fully furnished, carpeted and softly lit. Our second dungeon is now home to Mistress Watchful and has been fully refurbished. You are welcome to play here on Pure nights, enjoy the oriental ambiance and relax in comfort.

**Mistress Watchful's Private Garden to be open soon***

Have a time-out in the bar and help yourselves to our luxury buffet to re-energise yourself. Our bar staff will look after your alcohol for you, and you are able to purchase soft drinks, mixers and tea and coffee here.

Pure is a fetish event, we welcome all sexualities, all tastes and welcome new friends and experienced players alike. This is also a sex friendly venue, please feel free to indulge your passions in the bedrooms.

We have NO DRESSCODE. We believe that how you dress is not important, it's who you are that matters. A lot of our guests still like to make an effort and we love that. Our hosts also dress to impress, but if you are new, or just prefer to play in a relaxed, more casual state of dress, you are welcome.

Location:Salisbury Road, Totton near Southampton, SO40 2RQ. Entrance is decorated with fairy lights and an old fashioned lamp post so you don't miss us.

Join us, endeavour to make those fantasies become realities, and above all...

...have Pure Unadulterated Fun.

 

Why us?

  • Because at Pure you can truly be yourself...
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  • Sadist, masochist, Swinger, TV, TS, Master,
  • Mistress or slave. Princess by day, slut by night...
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  • Come as YOU really are!
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Guest Comments


"Good fun, good food, good company. Was nice to meet (and play with) some new people."

RonnieSoak


"Thailand is FUN, walking street is somewhere everyone should go to. Amsterdam is closer, and cheaper (...) But lets face it, who needs to go abroad when there are such fun things to do and see at Pure!"

RonnieSoak


"Thanks to everyone for a great night at Pure this Saturday. Brilliant buffet and a great atmosphere. Definitely some great times had in the dungeons and the playrooms. can't wait for next month."

2bus


"Thanks to everyone for a lovely evening, sorry didnt get to speak to everyone, Mistress was kept busy!!!"

Fantastic_Freya

Jun 2nd - 1pm till 3am



Our once a year extended summer event opens at 1pm so that you can make the most of the garden, play outdoors and indulge in some alfresco sexiness!

This year it coincides with the Jubilee Weekend. Make the most of the extra long weekend, with an extra long party time!!!

  • Bring a beach tent for some privacy
  • Bring a garden and umbrella and blankets
  • Bring a baby BBQ and picnic outside
  • Bring your towel and flip flops
  • Enjoy a free glass of Pimms on arrival
  • Play in and out of the house and dungeons ALL DAY LONG.
  • A "Splosh/Wet And Messy" area and hosepipe will be set up outdoors for you messy ones

    Mistress Watchful's garden dungeon will be OPEN (TBC, but this is the aim!!!)

    Our usual evening buffet will be available after 8pm, but please bring along a picnic to enjoy during the earlier hours.

    Bring your passion partner for some serious play at Pure.

    Dungeons and bedrooms will be your playground. Enjoy. We'll be there to make sure you have a great night. :)

    Taking adult pleasures back to their Pure essence... be sexy, be kinky, be yourself.

    "It's YOUR fantasy, don't let anyone tell you how it should be done!"

    Join us, endeavour to make those fantasies become realities, and above all... have Pure Unadulterated Fun

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    • Jul 7th - 8pm till 3am



    MORE DETAILS TO FOLLOW...

    You are always welcome to play out your fantasies at Pure... as long as they are legal, there are NO LIMITS.

    Please feel free to ask the Pure Crew to introduce you to people, or give you another tour (we've had a lot of changes at the house recently) so that you can make the most of your sexy night out.

    Our luxury buffet will be at your disposal. Don't forget to bring your own alcohol, and towels for the hot-tub.
































    Aug 4th - 8pm till 3am



    MORE DETAILS TO FOLLOW...

    You are always welcome to play out your fantasies at Pure... as long as they are legal, there are NO LIMITS.

    Please feel free to ask the Pure Crew to introduce you to people, or give you another tour (we've had a lot of changes at the house recently) so that you can make the most of your sexy night out.

    Our luxury buffet will be at your disposal. Don't forget to bring your own alcohol, and towels for the hot-tub.
































    Hot Tub

    The perfect way to relax after a vigorous work out!!!

    Dungeon One

    Full to bursting with a wide range of equipment, this Dungeon is sure to keep you satisfied.

    The Locked Room

    If you wish to take your play to a more private room, this one is for you.
     

    Upstairs Dungeon

    Also known as the Karma Sutra room.  This upstairs dungeon has a variety of equipment and a bed for your pleasure.  

    Smoking Area

    Heated Smoking Area Our gazebo has plenty of seating for chatting whilst you take a "comfort break".

    DanceFloor/Photo Booth

    Let yourself go on the dancefloor, or perhaps put on a performance on the pole. This is also where you will find our resident photographer. He is happy to take photos of you here, or elsewhere in the venue by request.

    House Rules


  • Management reserve right of entry.

  • Visitors must be over 18 years of age.

  • Privacy and confidentiality are of utmost importance, what happens at Pure, STAYS at Pure.

  • No photography other than by authorised persons, this only happens occasionally and the photographer will have a Club badge. If you do NOT wish to be photographed, just speak to our photographer and s/he will take care to make sure you are not in any shots.

  • Please use mobile phones in the two changing areas ONLY.

  • No drugs whatsoever.

  • Do not bring valuable items to Pure. All liability remains with you if you do, Management and the house property owner will not be held responsible for any loss or damage regarding your possessions.

  • Alcohol is to be stored with the bar staff ONLY. Drink responsibly. Anyone believed to have consumed beyond their personal limit of alcohol, and is causing problems for others WILL be removed from the club.

  • The Pure Crew are not liable for any damage or harm that may befall you or your possessions whilst you are on site, all play is undertaken at your own risk.

  • The Pure Crew will not be held liable or responsible for any loss or injury sustained by anyone whilst attending Pure.

    • House Zones


    Social Zones:

    Downstairs, ie Living Room, Dancefloor, Bar/Dining Room. Please DO NOT clog up valuable play spaces, retire to the Social Zones to chit chat. No sexual or heavy play in the Social Zones.

    Play Zones:

    Upstairs Bedrooms, all play allowed. Downstairs Dungeons, no penetrative play.

    Smoking Zones:

    Outside or in the Gazebo

    Changing Zones:

    Main Area: Downstairs through the Bar. Please change here and leave your luggage and coats.

    Lockers: Upstairs to the left. Please only leave small items, locked in the lockers provided. Please DO NOT leave items on the floor or bench. Locker keys are available from the bar, for a £5 deposit, refunded when you return you key.

    Play Rules


  • NO means NO!

  • Do not interrupt a scene or play session unless invited.

  • Do not touch without asking, this goes for people and possessions.

  • If you wish to play with another person, please be respectful in your request, if the answer is “No”, take it gracefully and move on.

  • Do not exceed your alcohol limit.

  • If you are unsure of a piece of equipment, please ask a member of the Pure Crew for assistance.

  • If you make a mess, clean it up.

  • No bestiality.

  • No scat.

  • No watersports indoors.

  • Advanced play (eg suspension, blood play, etc) should be cleared by the Pure Crew before play starts.

  • This is for your safety and the safety of other members.

  • Above all, be safe, be kinky, and ENJOY

    • Food and Drink


    We have a full buffet in the bar, laid out for your pleasure. Please help yourself and enjoy.

    Please bring your own alcohol and store it with our bar staff. It will be labelled and served to you on request.

    Tea, Coffee and Soft Drinks are available at the bar for a small price (Ranging from 20p to £1). Please bring some change with you.

    Don't Panic!


    We completely understand. We've been there.

    On arrival to Pure please go through the door on your right to the office.

    You will be welcomed, asked for your name (your nickname is fine) and email address, and you will need to pay your £15.

    The person behind the desk should realise you are new and ask if you would like a tour. If they do not, then please say "I'm new here, can someone show me around?"

    All of the Pure Crew wear blue badges with their name on. If at any point during the evening you feel lost or left out, just head for a member of the crew and introduce yourself.

    Things to remember:

  • DON'T TOUCH! This applies to both people and possessions. People will be offended if they don't know you and you do anything other than shake their hand. If you would like to look at someone's toys, just ask them, most people are happy to show off and explain what they do.

  • DON'T INTERRUPT! This is common courtesy, but even more important if people are busy in the bedrooms or dungeons.

  • DO CHAT! Strike up conversations with people in the Social Areas, introduce yourself, ask questions.

  • DO PLAY! If you came with a playmate or are lucky enough to find one on the night, go ahead and enjoy yourself... Just be safe and sensible.

    • What Shall I Wear?


    You may have seen photos of fetish clubs and think "OMG they all look fabulous, I have nothing to wear."

    Fear not. Those who have made an enormous effort to dress up usually jump in front of the camera. You don't have to go all out, unless that's what you really like to do.

    Do not feel you need to turn up wearing head to toe latex, leather or PVC.

    Girls (genuine or not) wear what makes you feel sexy and comfortable. Now is the chance to show off your sexiest bedroom wear, luscious lingerie, or your favourite little black dress.

    Guys, suits (including your birthday suit) work well. If you don't want to feel too smart, then all black is a traditional uniform for the first time visitor.

    Our relaxed dress code has proved so popular we have decided to keep it. There is no longer an official "dress code". Wear whatever you feel comfortable in.

    I have no-one to play with.


    If you are submissive and would like to reserve time with Mistress Watchful, please ask any of the Pure Crew, or Ms Watchful herself.

    Mistress Watchful is happy to indulge you in rope bondage, wax play, impact play (from soft flogging through to harsh paddles and canes) and boot worship if the mood takes her.

    Mistress Watchful owns an Estim Series One. If you wish to play with this you will need to bring your own "attachments" for her to plug in.

    Mistress Watchful does not offer sexual services or intimate contact play of any kind.

    We do not currently have a house female submissive, or a Male House Dom. If you would like to apply for either of these positions, please attend the club in the first instance so we can meet you in person.

    What Shall I Say?


    Remember, people first, fetishist/swinger second.

    Walking up to people and assuming they want to play with you or have sex with you will probably end up with you being blanked.

    Introduce yourself, explain that you are new to the scene or swinging and you have never been to Pure before.

    Have a normal conversation about how your day was, your journey to the club, or if all else fails, the weather.

    You will find that people will ask if you are sub/Dom or swinger. If you don't know yet, just explain you are unsure and exploring. Say you thought you'd come along and see what it was all about.

    You should be able to gauge if people are interested in taking things further by the questions they ask.

    Take it slow, and be friendly and polite. You may be pleasantly surprised.

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